Last week i had made a comment on computer dating and how i thought love was for some in Hollywood. Though it happens, it was more of an assessment than fact. I as a Catholic should have never have made that comment;being an imperfect person myself. I have no right to judge those who have lost in love. Everybody, no matter how big or small deserves a second chance at what i hope to achieve if only once. Some just are more fortunate then others, I guess. If one is bitter it would be me-at some level.
I as a Catholic was not speaking as a Catholic should; that is one of my many imperfections, but i strive to grow and be the best i can. I can only hope and pray that the women i find, excepts me for who i am. I believe that a marriage could be if not like the story books portray;pretty close to it, (with the elements of today of course) with my 110 percent involvement, any dream is possible. This by no means is an excuse,but i think the reason why my opinion was so callous is because I'm a protective brother of 6 sisters,and know so many whom have had failed marriages in such short periods of time.Perhaps I'm thinking of the children affected by the situation; along with the bad experiences I've had myself;but then again that isn't an excuse, it's just a form of therapy for myself.
As long as i know what it is I'm looking for, that's all that matters. Divorce doesn't make a person imperfect, sometimes it's the only alternative,a divorcee could still have a good heart and soul. And that's what matter most.
I'm learning a lot in this life, and one of the things I've learned is to think before i speak, and to keep my opinions to myself. Learning for me is a life long process and i hope and thank God i never stop.
Way to go Notre Dame great win, we are now 3-1
God bless! Eric Paul Dennis
4th of 12
Ciao!
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